The Feminine side of the male

People say God made all humans equal. I dont know how many people really believe this becuase there are times wherein the favour is exaggerated for one of the genders. But when it comes to qualities inscribed into them I dare say iits the same. Its only that one dominates the other at times on most occassions because the surroundings tell them to be so. But yes
"Boys do cry".

Its been quite some time since I have been contemplating over this topic. In Kannada there's a saying which transliterates into ' Never believe a smiling woman and a crying man'. I dont know why this has come into existence or the logic behind on the saying. But my question is why should'nt boys cry? And why should always woman crying evoke sympathy? I can't understand. When a man seems to be being domiated by a woman its just that the qualities like patience, care and the like which we normally associate with a woman overriding the 'regular' behaviour of a man. Its the time when the male gets connected to his feminine side. We also need to bring out our feelings of being sad. We also need to express our concern. And these can't be done the hard way. The subtler substitutes take over. The eyes have a lot of moisture in them and at some point of time they need a way out. So if they come out when sadness gathers weight in our pool of emotions why is such a hue and cry rised? And more than the man is always afraid to show his tears. I dont understand this fear. We need to shed this fear.


Cry on,carry on,
Let the feelings drip down,
Wipe out the penury from your heart,
Make no mistake,you are'nt a coward,
But more brave than people who think,
crying for a grown up is grave.

Pray on,make your mind free,
Be fearless there's always the divine by your side,
Everyone will fall,
but have the heart to say,
"Yes i erred" for the strength you gain is worth all that pain
Never fear to lose,
For you will then find,more ways of winning to choose

So carry on my man
Pent up emotions will only cause harm
So if you need to cry
Cry on ,carry onlet your feelings drip down
Wipe out the penury from your heart